It is officially finished jz as this story...wish both of u happy and sweet sweet forever...

深夜，寺里一人一佛，佛坐人站。

　　

人：圣明的佛，我是一个已婚之人，我现在狂热地爱上了另一个女人，我真的不知道该怎幺办。 　　

佛：你能确写你现在爱上的这个女人就是你生命里唯一的最后一个女人吗？ 　　

人：是的。 　　

佛：你离婚，然后娶她。 　　

人：可是我现在的爱人温柔，善良，贤惠，我这样做是否有一点残忍，有一点不道德。 　　

佛：在婚姻中没有爱才是残忍和不道德的，你现在爱上了别人已不爱她了，你这样做是正确的。 　　

人：可是我爱人很爱我，真的很爱我。 　　

佛：那她就是幸福的。 　　

人：我要与她离婚后另娶她人，她应该是很痛苦的又怎幺会是幸福的呢？ 　　

佛：在婚姻里她还拥有她对你的爱，而你在婚姻中已失去对她的爱，因为你爱上了别人，正谓拥有的就是幸福的，失去的才是痛苦的，所以痛苦的人是你。 　　

人：可是我要和她离婚后另娶她人，应该是她失去了我，她应该才是痛苦的。 　　

佛：你错了，你只是她婚姻中真爱的一个具体，当你这个具体不存在的时候，她的真爱会延续到另一个具体，因为她在婚姻中的真爱从没有失去过。所以她才是幸福的而你才是痛苦的。 　　

人：她说过今生只爱我一个，她不会爱上别人的。 　　

佛：这样的话你也说过吗？ 　　

人：我。我。。我。。。 　　

佛：你现在看你面前香炉里的三根蜡烛，那根最亮。 　　

人：我真的不知道，好象都是一样的亮。 　　

佛：这三根蜡烛就好比是三个女人，其中一根就是你现在所爱的那个女人，芸芸众生，女人何止千百万万，你连这三根蜡烛那根最亮都不知道，都不能把你现在爱的人找出来，你为什么又能确定你现在爱的这个女人就是你生命里唯一的最后一个女人呢？ 　　

人：我。我。。我。。。 　　

佛：你现在拿一根蜡烛放在你的眼前，用心看看那根最亮 　　

人：当然是眼前的这根最亮。 　　

佛：你现在把它放回原处，再看看那根最亮 　　

人：我真的还是看不出那根最亮。 　　

佛：其实你刚拿的那根蜡烛就是好比是你现在爱的那个最后的女人，所谓爱由心生，当你感觉你爱她时，你用心去看就觉的它最亮，当你把它放回原处，你却找不到最亮的一点感觉，你这种所谓的最后的唯一的爱只是镜花水月，到头来终究是一场空。 　　

人：哦，我懂了，你并不是要我与我的爱人离婚，你是在点化我， 　　

佛：看破不说破，你去吧 　　

人：我现在真的知道我爱的是谁了，她就是我现在的爱人。 　　

佛：阿弥陀佛，阿弥陀佛

　　你我曾经深爱过的某人，无非也就是芸芸众生中的一个，只是爱由心生，自以为他/她会是今生最爱，当你感觉你爱她，你用心去爱就觉的他/她最珍贵，当万物归原，生命仍然继续，他/她无非也就是我们生命中的一个过客

。 　　我们根本无法确定哪一个才是今生最爱，如果不懂得去珍惜，你身边这个爱你的/你爱的人，在某一天，也会成为你身边的过客

。 　　找一个你爱的人不容易，找一个爱你的人也不容易。如果无法确定哪一个才是你最爱的人，何不在自己成为别人的爱人的时候珍惜这份感情？爱由心生，你告诉自己是爱他/她的，自然就可以爱上他/她。

　　如果你爱的人不爱你，也请记得：爱由心生。是你太过于把目光集中在他/她身上了，试着放开视线焦点，你会发现光亮的蜡烛到处都有。

　　爱与不爱，无非也就是在一念之间。

　　过去的事情过去的爱情，就让它过去吧，那只是我们生命的一部分，只是茫茫大海中的一滴水珠，只是漫漫苍弩中的一粒微尘。没有那些过去，也不会造就现在的你我。

　　珍惜当前，永远胜于三心二意

it has been quite long time that i din update my blog.It is because the medicine which given by doctor are too strong.It made me keep feeling sleepy and therefore i slept quite early everyday...due to this reason,i disappear quite a long time no matter in msn or facebook...there is something that troublesome me and i cant make any decision..should i take external exam next jan?i dun think that i am able to do it..and my condition now not allow me to do it...actually,there is nothing to think about because i just recover 60 % only...i just hope that 18 of december is the last day that i need to see doctor and i am fully recover by the time...ok..well..nvm..how also i have no choice..i can use long time to prepare but once i decide to sit in the exam hall,i am sure that i will pass the paper and get a nice band..i know i will slower than a lot of my frens but it is ok..i just have to compete with myself..In this world,there are so mny ppl better than us..it will be so tiring if we keep comparing with others but it doesn't mean that we are loser.nobody is loser unless they give out themselves..i decide that i just concentrate on my studies and enjoy my uni life with activities..i believe that those experience will be helpful for me on next time..and it will also be a memorable experience for me...i dun wan that my uni life just pack with exams and there is no fun for me...i am not the one who can just face with books and exams..there is many ways to improve ourselves and it is not just with flying colours in test paper..but i know that i have to improve myself in mny aspects..now,i just have to rest well and recover in a short time...

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just saw kim's blog and i found something quite worth to share.. here,i would like to share with quite a number of sentences..hope u all can get used of it too..it is easy to think but hard to do...

01.每天告诉自己一次，"我真的很不错"


02.生气是拿别人做错的事来惩罚自己


03.生活中若没有朋友，就像生活中没有阳光一样


04.明天的希望，让我们忘了今天的痛苦


05.生活若剥去理想、梦想、幻想，那生命便只是一堆空架子


06.发光并非太阳的专利，你也可以发光


07.愚者用肉体监视心灵，智者用心灵监视肉体


08.获致幸福的不二法门是珍视你所拥有的、遗忘你所没有的


09.贪婪是最真实的贫穷，满足是最真实的财富


10.你可以用爱得到全世界，你也可以用恨失去全世界


11.人的价值，在遭受诱惑的一瞬间被决定


12.年轻是我们唯一拥有权利去编织梦想的时光


13.青春一经典当即永不再赎


14.没有了爱的语言，所有的文字都是乏味的


15.真正的爱，应该超越生命的长度、心灵的宽度、灵魂的深度


16.爱的力量大到使人忘记一切，却小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石不能容纳


17.当一个人真正觉悟的一刻，他放弃追寻外在世界的?


18.只要有信心，人永远不会挫败


19.不论你在什么时候开始，重要的是开始之后就不要停止


20.不论你在什么时候结束，重要的是结束之后就不要悔恨


21.人若软弱就是自己最大的敌人


22.人若勇敢就是自己最好的朋友


23.『不可能』只存在于蠢人的字典里


24.抱最大的希望，为最大的努力，做最坏的打算


25.家！甜蜜的家！天下最美好的莫过于家


26.游手好闲会使人心智生锈


27.每一件事都要用多方面的角度来看它


28.有理想在的地方，地狱就是天堂


29.有希望在的地方，痛苦也成欢乐


30.所有的胜利，与征服自己的胜利比起来，都是微不足道


31.所有的失败，与失去自己的失败比起来，更是微不足道


32.上帝从不埋怨人们的愚昧，人们却埋怨上帝的不公平


33.美好的生命应该充满期待、惊喜和感激


34.世上最累人的事，莫过于虚伪的过日子


35.觉得自己做的到和不做的到，其实只在精神


36.第一个青春是上帝给的；第二个的青春是靠自己努力的


37.少一点预设的期待，那份对人的关怀会更自在


38.思想如钻子，必须集中在一点钻下去才有力量


39.人只要不失去方向，就不会失去自己


40.如果你曾歌颂黎明，那么也请你拥抱黑夜


41.问候不一定要慎重其事，但一定要真诚感人


42.人生重要的不是所站的位置，而是所朝的方向


43.当你能飞的时候就不要放弃飞


44.当你能梦的时候就不要放弃梦


45.当你能爱的时候就不要放弃爱


46.生命太过短暂，今天放弃了明天不一定能得到


47.天才是百分之一的灵感加上百分之九十九的努力


48.人总是珍惜未得到的，而遗忘了所拥有的


49.快乐要懂得分享，才能加倍的快乐


50.自己要先看得起自己，别人才会看得起你


51.一个今天胜过两个明天


52.要铭记在心；每天都是一年中最美好的日子


53.乐观者在灾祸中看到机会；悲观者在机会中看到灾祸


54.有勇气并不表示恐惧不存在，而是敢面对恐惧、克服恐惧


55.肯承认错误则错已改了一半


56.明天是世上增值最快的一块土地，因它充满了希望


57.理想的路总是为有信心的人预备着


58.所有欺骗中，自欺是最为严重的


59.人生最大的错误是不断担心会犯错


60.把你的脸迎向阳光，那就不会有阴影


61.经验是由痛苦中粹取出来的


62.用最少的悔恨面对过去


63.用最少的浪费面对现在


64.用最多的梦面对未来


65.快乐不是因为拥有的多而是计较的少


66.你的选择是做或不做，但不做就永远不会有机会


67.如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊，可能一辈子找不到朋友


68.不如意的时候不要尽往悲伤里钻，想想有笑声的日子吧


69.把自己当傻瓜，不懂就问，你会学的更多


70.要纠正别人之前，先反省自己有没有犯错


71.因害怕失败而不敢放手一搏，永远不会成功


72.要克服生活的焦虑和沮丧，得先学会做自己的主人


73.你不能左右天气，但你可以主宰心情?


74.孤单寂寞与被遗弃感是最可怕的贫穷


75.想象力比知识更重要


76.漫无目的的生活就像出海航行而没有指南针


77.好好扮演自己的角色，做自己该做的事


78.一切伟大的行动和思想，都有一个微不足道的开始


79.得意时应善待他人，因为你失意时会需要他们


80.学做任何事得按部就班，急不得。

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here reopen my blog..it has been 2 weeks that i din't smile but it doesn't matter..i believe by end of this week i can fully recover..think from the positive side,this is really a good chance to adjust back my health as i am always weak..besides,i also be more patient now as i know it take time to recover although i very hope that i can smile immediately..anyway,it doesn't matter...i always believe that there is rainbow after the rain just like my name..the rainbow is waiting for me..u will never know how smile is important if u are facing the same disease as me now..so ,my friends,please try to welcome ur days with smile..nothing is more important than smile..i know it after facing this disease..smile is precious...i know i must be strong to overcome it..after that,i will be more tough when facing with difficulties..thanks to those who laugh at me during i face with this disease..it is nothing to laugh at..when u are facing the same thing with me,i dun think u all still can laugh out...anyway,i know how cruel u all are..just ignore...i will be more confident after this as now i also can face with people with this condition..it is just a short period and a big challenge..it will be overcome soon..after the rain,rainbow will be appeared just for me...the day is coming soon..i will replace all my holidays after this..fully enjoy..

everyone is enjoying their wonderful holiday now..how about me?just stay in pv6 with my laptop..my condition not allow me to follow..what can i do?just nothing..everyday when i woke up,i found that all of them around me are going to enjoy their holiday to the max.i thought after my tests,i can same with them too...but things are always not happen as what we imagine..i dun care..at least,every weekend i must back hometown..i dun wan alone to be here anymore..T.T..haiz..think positively,just take this chance to adjust back..jz so unlucky,but at least,i know there are still many take good care of me..so thank you.

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I neglect my blog again with the same reason---exam..The reason will never be changed..Why?because i am taking a course which is damn heavy...Everytime i updated my blog,there must be a reason--down...Why?i also cant describe..sometimes,it is just a sudden feeling...i felt down due to mny reasons..normally,when my frens with me,i always be the one who laugh all the way..However,it has been quite a few day that i din smile already...nobody know why...becoz i din tell anybody also...just end my postt here..need to continue with my studies again...

tired.......

Dunno why recently keep feeling tired..Yesterday i slept for 13 hours ,i still feel sleepy today..monday test got 11 chapters but i still think to relax for a while..No Choice..Luckily,I have a satisfy dinner with kim,ah pek and ming zhang..it is really a wonderful time..We play,we laugh,we dun care others how see us and just be the way we are..Have a wonderful "Tomyam" meal..All of us also ordered Tomyam dishes..We are all stress due to tests,assignments and so on..As we all planned to stay overnight to do revision,ah pek suggest us to have the hazenut coffee from oldtown..Without hestitation,we bought it..The hazenut Coffee made me stay awake until 6am successfully..hehe..anyway,1 more month..goood luck to everyone